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Whether you chose to work with us or not, you may find the following resources helpful to you (some are affiliate links). There are book resources, phone apps, products, and national hotlines. This is an ever-evolving list, so please check back often, and contact us if you have a suggestion to add to our list.

Books

Dr. Gary Chapman’s proven approach to showing and receiving love will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your partner—starting today.

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Similar to the idea that there are different ways to express love, there are different ways to make an apology! It is more than just saying “I’m sorry.” – learn how to give and receive genuine apologies and heal your relationships

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Buddha's Brain

by Rick Hanson. Using guided meditations and mindfulness exercises, you’ll learn how to activate the brain states of calm, joy, and compassion instead of worry, sorrow, and anger.

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Just One Thing

by Rick Hanson. This guide offers simple things you can do routinely, mainly inside your mind, that will support and increase your sense of security and worth, resilience, effectiveness, well-being, insight, and inner peace.

Although a bit dated, this is a Christian/LDS based book about how to manage the normal differences in marriage so that you can grow together rather than apart. It is available in Kindle and digital download.

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Atomic Habits

Looking for ways to make consistent changes in your daily habits? Check out James Clear’s book.

Phone Apps

 The Headspace meditation app teaches you how to breathe, meditate, and live mindfully.

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Insight Timer

More time is spent meditating on Insight Timer than all other meditation apps. With 32,000 free guided meditations, you can meditate on Insight Timer for as long as you want without ever paying a cent.

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Calm

The Calm app provides guided meditations, Sleep Stories, breathing programs, masterclasses, and relaxing music. Good for beginners and experts.

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Breathe Mindfulness

Features a visual guide with animations and haptic feedback to help users synchronize their breaths with the prompts. The app can be customized to adjust breath rate and session duration, and it integrates with the Health app to track mindful minutes. 

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Love Nudge

A fun, habit-forming app that helps you intentionally express love in ways that are most meaningful to your partner. Designed for real-life connection, LoveNudge takes the concepts of Dr. Gary Chapman’s The 5 Love Languages to the next level.

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Psych Drugs

A free app to learn about psychotropic medications, including generic and brand names, dosing, half-life, and side effects.

Products

 The Headspace meditation app teaches you how to breathe, meditate, and live mindfully.

This one features acid-free lined paper, a pen loop, two ribbon bookmarks, numbered pages, storage pocket, and elastic band closure.

Hardbound and sturdy, this is what I have used for several years to help me jot down a few points each day (gratitude, funny things my kids did or said, milestones reached, etc). There are only a few lines, so it isn’t overwhelming and this helps me maintain the habit.

A good set of fine point marker penshelps you keep therapy notes or bullet journal your ideas and feelings.

Provides 10,000 Lux, UV-Free bright white light, is portable, and it has 3 levels of brightness and 3 different colors (nature light, cool white light & warm white light) to adjust based on your preference. Also has an auto-off timing function with 10/20/30/40/50/60mins.  About 5.5 by 9.5 inches.

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Insight Timer

For a more decorative Light Therapy Lamp, THIS is what Anthony uses. It is about 5 x 13 inches, and designed and Made in the USA. It provides the recommended 10,000 LUX brightness for effective light therapy to help beat the winter blues, regulate sleep, fight fatigue, boost mood, and improve focus.

Weighted Blanket to help with sleep and anxiety.

A good white noise machine can improve your sleep and concentration, and improve privacy when working from home. This one is SMALL (only about 2.5 inches cubed), and has 20 NON_LOOPING sounds, multiple timer settings, and is small and portable.

National Resources

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NAMI

NAMI is the National Alliance on Mental Illness. We are the nation’s largest grassroots mental health organization.  We work in your community to raise awareness and provide support and education to those in need.

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988 Suicide Hotline

Whether you’re facing mental health struggles, emotional distress, alcohol or drug use concerns, or just need someone to talk to, our caring counselors are here for you. You are not alone.

Living Beyond Breast Cancer

Living Beyond Breast Cancer is a national nonprofit that connects people with trusted information and a community of support.