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You may be surprised at what research has found. It can shed some light on the ways we unknowingly set ourselves up to NOT feel happy.
Smiley Faces

-Anthony Tzoumas, Ph.D.
Psychologist

Everyone wants to be happy. It is a common goal most of us have. But what is the best way to go about achieving it?  

  • Have you ever noticed that the harder you try to reach happiness, the more it seems to slip away?
  • Do you question how much control you have over feeling happy?
  • Is it luck? Genetics? Once you get out of debt, get a promotion, find the perfect spouse, etc.?
  • Do you think you are doing everything "right" but still can't find joy or peace?

You may be surprised at what research has found. It can shed some light on the ways we unknowingly set ourselves up to NOT feel happy.

...continue reading "Happiness: A Symptom of a Life Directed by Values"

A diagnosis of mental illness affects more than just the patient. Family relationships and friendships are often affected too. If someone you care about struggles with symptoms of a mental illness, this article quoted below from the American Psychological Association (APA) addresses the situation.

...continue reading "How to Cope When a Loved One Has a Mental Illness"

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Coping Ven Diagram

Overwhelmed & Running on Empty?

Do you need more coping skills? No matter how hard we try, there will always be times when life’s challenges seem to be more than we can manage. Life is hard, and will inevitably have ups and downs. Often the most stressful parts of life are those times when we can’t FIX the problem, and we just have to cope with it.

...continue reading "Universal Ways to Improve Mood"

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New Year's Resolution Canva Meme

Let’s Get Healthy!

It’s that Resolution time of year again! After a month of extra food indulgences, loosened adherence to diet and exercise, and increased stress-eating and social-eating, people across the globe commit to getting healthy in the New Year. Top goals tend to consistently include: eat healthier/lose weight and to exercise more.

...continue reading "8 Tips to Stick to Your Healthy Resolution"

Winter blues or Seasonal Affective Disorder

Some people love the cold weather and snowy landscapes, But if you have the Winter Blues, then this is a hard time of year. When your dislike for the winter becomes significant enough to interfere with your ability to function and still enjoy life, you may have Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), a type of clinical depression that is closely tied to winter months and less sunlight, and less physical activity. Here is a repost of an article (here) to learn ways to cope with it.

...continue reading "Ways to Cope with the Winter Blues"

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Woman tied up in holiday light strands.

Holiday Stress can be overwhelming. The holidays are meant to bring an increase in happiness and connection with others, but often become the cause of increased stress, frustration, anxiety, and conflict.

James Baraz wrote an article for the Greater Good Foundation (Here) with some really good basic strategies to focus on when the Grinch sneaks into our hearts and minds.

...continue reading "Dealing with Holiday Stress"

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Depressed man

If your sadness extends for more days than not, for 2 weeks or more, and interferes with your ability to function in life, you may benefit from seeing a psychologist to help overcome your depressive episode. Read more here from APA.

...continue reading "Overcoming Depression"

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Beyond worry.

Worry and stress are a normal part of life. But when anxiety becomes so significant that it interferes with your ability to live important aspects of your life, you may have an anxiety disorder. The American Psychologist Association (APA) wrote in their help center here about the various types of anxiety disorders and ways psychologists can help. I will repost for convenience:

...continue reading "Beyond Worry: How Psychologist Help with Anxiety Disorders"