National PTSD Awareness Day

National PTSD Awareness Day

June 27th is the National PTSD Awareness Day. It is a day to recognize the effects that PTSD has on the lives of everyone affected by it. This day was chosen in 2010 by the United States following then-Sen. Kent Conrad’s efforts to designate a day of awareness as a...
Retired – Now What?

Retired – Now What?

Congratulations on your retirement. After working for so many years, you’ve earned the opportunity to relax! But, for many people, retirement can start to feel overwhelming very quickly. If you’ve worked most of your life, you probably looked forward to this time....
Pointing Fingers of Blame

Pointing Fingers of Blame

Who’s Fault Was It? As I talked about in this blog post, there are three broad reasons why bad things happen in our lives—the results of our choices, the consequences of someone else’s behaviors, and the natural effects of living in an imperfect, mortal world with...
Understanding Self-Blame

Understanding Self-Blame

You’re unhappy, in distress, and trying to figure out how to move forward.  It is easy to fall into the self-blame trap. Could this have been avoided if only you’d done something different? Was it someone else’s fault?  Perhaps you were just a victim of plain old bad...